MEET OUR TEAM
What did you want to be when you were a kid? I spent my childhood in the country and was obsessed with horses, so I wanted to be a veterinarian. Oh, and an Olympic horse riding champion, then a singer, then a business woman in Japan, until I came across the subject ‘Third World Development’ and was drawn to work on women’s issues in developing countries.
What happened in-between? I studied a lot, moved to the Maldives and started conducting research on violence against women, met lots of inspiring women, did my PhD, got married to a wonderful man, moved to Bangkok to work for the United Nations, met more inspiring women and men, had a baby, published a book, had twins, moved to South Africa to run a global programme on the prevention of violence against women, had an emotional breakthrough, reassessed my life, started this organisation, and now I get to work with this amazing crew.
What are you doing now? Do you like that? I’m running this exciting start-up and trying to balance that with being a mindful mother and pursue my creative writing passions. I love everything about my life. Although I’m still tired most of the time.
Does the patriarchy get you down? Like, do you ever just feel really annoyed by the way women get treated? Yes, in the past it has gotten me down a lot. So much so that I’ve had to be very conscious about what I expose myself to. Since I’ve had kids I don’t watch the news much and I don’t do any frontline services work. So I appreciate more than ever the people who do. But mostly I’m passionate and hopeful. I’m an eternal optimist and I know I can be of more use to the world and to this issue if I stay that way.
Who's your fave feminist icon? My husband! Seriously, he might not be an icon but he’s probably the most humble feminist I know, who shows his commitment through daily action rather than a loud voice.
What did you want to be when you were a kid? A teacher. Part of me still does.
What happened in-between? I had a love affair with China and ended up living in a small town in Eastern China. I had a few defining moments while I was there and so came home to focus on gender and development.
What are you doing now? Do you like that? I pretty much have my ideal job right now – gender-focused research. I’m working on a bit of everything from the world over.
Does the patriarchy get you down? Like, do you ever just feel really annoyed by the way women get treated? All the time. I can’t even get on my bicycle to ride down to the shops without being yelled at. It’s the little things like that frustrate me the most. But I do think there is a gradual shift in societal thought and behaviour. The hope and belief in that keeps me going.
Who's your fave feminist icon? Can I have two? Sylvia Plath and Cynthia Enloe. Both women had a huge impact on me. Plath on how I viewed myself as a young woman, and Enloe in influencing the way I interpreted the world. Over the years there have been many amazing women I’ve known personally and read extensively who continue to inspire and challenge me, and I love that.
What did you want to be when you were a kid? I think this was something that shifted fairly often – from pop star, to equestrian champion, to anthropologist. So while I’ve never had a single, outright answer to this question, I’ve always wanted to be active and engaged.
What happened in-between? I started studying law and international relations and quickly discovered a curiosity and passion for research. This took me to anthropology, gender studies and international development, which in turn has taken me on a journey through far-flung corners of Asia and the Pacific. I found my passion and engagement has landed me squarely on my feet as a strong, feminist researcher.
What are you doing now? Do you like that? A very fortunate stream of events led me to where I am now: travelling and engaging in innovative research to contribute to the end of gender inequality and violence against women, which I love.
Does the patriarchy get you down? Like, do you ever just feel really annoyed by the way women get treated? It gets me every day. I can’t comprehend all the discriminatory beliefs and hatred that seem to flood the world. People are people are people are people! But then I breathe in, take a moment to block out that white noise, and am reminded of the strength and compassion of the people that I have surrounded myself with.
Who’s your fave feminist icon? There are so many women who I believe speak with clarity, eloquence and confidence, reflecting a diversity of feminist experiences and opinions. More than anyone else, my girl gang: the amazing group of women that surrounds me and is constantly expanding and inspiring. They’re creative women, smart women, courageous women, driven women. Women who care and craft and speak and know and remind me to “just do you” and the rest will follow.
What did you want to be when you were a kid? Growing up and looking to my future, I knew that I wanted to help people. As a kid, your perception of how you can help is fairly limited, so for a while I thought that I would become a doctor. But as you grow up you realise that the world is actually so much more complex than your childhood conception of it. You realise that there are so many opportunities and ways to make a meaningful difference. The more I grew and learned, the more I knew that development was my opportunity to contribute to the change I want to see.
What happened in-between? I’ve always known that I’m a feminist and have been acutely aware of the differences in social norms and attitudes between women and men. And the more I learned about the gender inequality that affects us all, I realised how deep the problems really go.
It hinders social and economic development at all levels worldwide. I also became very interested in politics and international affairs, which led me to pursue a career in international development.
What are you doing now? Do you like that? Currently I work in communications for gender equality and development. I’m really excited to be part of an organisation that works to transform social norms and attitudes on a global scale. The organisations we work with are so varied and yet we’re all working towards the same goal. We really are part of a global feminist movement, which is exactly where I want to be.
Does the patriarchy get you down? Like, do you ever just feel really annoyed by the way women get treated? Yes! I’m touched by it every day through my work and through being conscious of the gendered biases that are a constant in my life. And when I read a particularly devastating statistic or experience gender inequality in subtle ways like being bothered on the street it can get me down. But mostly it just makes my resolve stronger and reminds me of why I do what I do.
Who’s your fave feminist icon? Ayaan Hirsi Ali for her courage to think freely, for her bravery to be an advocate for change against immense intimidation and threat, for her resilience and eloquence, and for having stoked an already raging fire in me as a young feminist.
And Caitlin Moran, who is so perfectly unapologetic and encapsulates what I love about the feminist movement and discourse over the last few years, in particular how it’s becoming progressively more inclusive and respectful of diversities in background and opinion.
What did you want to be when you were a kid? Many things, which changed from week to week, but the main theme was working with animals - I either wanted to be a vet, the next David Attenborough, or work with gorillas as the next Dian Fossey.
What happened in-between? An unexpected life path - so many things I never expected happened to me. In short, I overcame adversity, found design as my calling, and grew and grew and traveled around the world and slowly formed into the person I am now.
What are you doing now? Do you like that? I've just moved to Melbourne from Sydney - I packed up my life and left everything I'd ever known with nothing solidified down here. Now I feel for the first time in my life that I am where I am meant to be - I feel at home in Melbourne and so stoked about everything going on in my life. It's all really exciting and the best bit is being able to do something I love and am really passionate about for work.
Does the patriarchy get you down? Like, do you ever just feel really annoyed by the way women get treated? Oh, all the time. I feel like we grow up being conditioned to have all these thoughts and ideas that are totally wrong. The way I found feminism was almost like stepping out from a fog, and realising that so much about the way we live is a product of the patriarchal system currently in place, and that has to change! So as much as it gets me down, it feels good to be aware of it and to make change. It's really empowering knowing that you will no longer keep your mouth shut when some creep tells you to 'smile more'.
Who’s your fave feminist icon? So so many, I can't name one icon - but can I say instead that the most inspiring feminist content available online is to me the StyleLikeU team creating the What's Underneath project. It's the most incredible series of interviews with all these amazingly diverse and inspiring people.
What did you want to be when you were a kid? I went back and forth between gardener, Jedi Knight, and lawyer. Thankfully I still get to engage in activities related to these fields today.
What happened in-between? My family and I happened to move around the world every few years. So I ended up living and studying in Australia, India, Nigeria, the U.S.A, the Netherlands and England. I couldn’t help but become fascinated with the diversity of lived human experiences across the globe.
What are you doing now? Do you like that? I’m studying International Development and working on gender equality with the best team at The EQI. I’m glad I took the time to reflect and figure out what I’m truly passionate about. Being excited about the day’s work ahead really helps when waking up in the morning.
Does the patriarchy get you down? Like, do you ever just feel really annoyed by the way women get treated? All the time. Once you become aware of the patriarchy, you see it everywhere and constantly. I find that boxing really helps-to create a physical outlet for the frustration. Also, everyday micro forms of resistance, and positive discourse that spreads awareness and education are great ways to keep your chin up.
Who's your fave feminist icon? I currently have two feminist icon obsessions. First, Naila Kabeer, who brings feminist underpinnings into social exclusion and labor market issues in developing contexts. Also, Elizabeth Warren, the US senator, with her unabashed idealism in tackling unjust financial systems. But my first feminist idol was Buffy the Vampire Slayer. She forgoes the gendered expectations placed on her as a woman, and fights for more important things like saving the world.
What did you want to be when you were a kid? A Power Ranger or a vampire slayer. After watching The Castle I settled on the only slightly more realistic goal of becoming a QC.
What happened in-between? I became interested in politics and Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander policy issues in particular. I worked as an Indigenous community development worker which gave me a deeper understanding of the issues facing Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander women in Australia and how fragile and slow moving political change in the right direction can be.
What are you doing now? Do you like that? I’m undertaking a Juris Doctor at Monash University and interning at The EQI. I love what I’m doing because it combines my passions for policy, research and advocacy. That, and I’m surrounded by a bunch of dedicated and ridiculously intelligent women.
Does the patriarchy get you down? Like, do you ever just feel really annoyed by the way women get treated? All the time! It seems as though every time you watch the news or scroll through your Facebook newsfeed you’re confronted with discrimination and sexism. Even seemingly innocuous little things like ‘mansplaining’ or being told that ‘women aren’t as funny as men’ can lead to a bit of an emotional tailspin. Luckily, I work in an environment where you can channel that into something positive, rather than quietly simmering.
Who's your fave feminist icon? There are a bunch! I’m drawn to and inspired by feminists like Celeste Liddle and Myrna Cunningham who see that human rights, Indigenous rights and women's rights are all interconnected.
What did you want to be when you were a kid? I wanted to by a gymnast or a drummer. For a while I was both, but now I am neither.
What happened in-between? From the age of 17 I worked in the music industry, played lots of music, did lots of travel, learned AUSLAN, worked with young people with disability, studied photography, worked as a photographer, married the love of my life, taught myself to bake and opened a bakery, and became the dad of three kids.
What are you doing now? Do you like that? Right now I am the carer of the three little ones and a run-of-the-mill house husband. I play a supporting role in my wife’s blossoming organisation. And I do my best to put a hot meal on the table every night.
Does the patriarchy get you down? Like, do you ever just feel really annoyed by the way women get treated? In general women get treated terribly in society — coming from the leaders of our country all the way down to the faceless trolls that scour the internet looking to write something nasty about someone they don’t know. It’s a massive red mark against our way of life. We should be holding these women up… not tearing them down!
Who's your fave feminist icon? It would have to be Barack (Obama) and his mate Justin (Trudeau). With world leaders like these, we are finally stepping in the right direction. Australia’s leaders could learn a few things from these two.